Comments on: Save Your Marriage from Insults http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/live/2006/10/02/save-marriage-insults/ marriage-saving tips to heal your relationship and bring back the love Sun, 22 May 2011 22:37:01 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Karen http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/live/2006/10/02/save-marriage-insults/comment-page-1/#comment-133876 Karen Sun, 22 May 2011 22:37:01 +0000 http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/live/2006/10/02/marriage-help/#comment-133876 A lasting marriage depends on a simple truth which also applies to dating and courtship: it's not about looks or money, it is how you make the person FEEL. This is why we become attracted to others, and is how we keep them too. Saying hurtful things does not make people feel good, and ultimately they often choose to leave. A lasting marriage depends on a simple truth which also applies to dating and courtship: it’s not about looks or money, it is how you make the person FEEL. This is why we become attracted to others, and is how we keep them too. Saying hurtful things does not make people feel good, and ultimately they often choose to leave.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/live/2006/10/02/save-marriage-insults/comment-page-1/#comment-124433 Anonymous Wed, 09 Dec 2009 11:12:39 +0000 http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/live/2006/10/02/marriage-help/#comment-124433 Love your post. I see how these tips can work. Helped to clear few things for me. Love your post. I see how these tips can work. Helped to clear few things for me.

]]> By: Steve http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/live/2006/10/02/save-marriage-insults/comment-page-1/#comment-18845 Steve Sat, 03 Nov 2007 22:27:55 +0000 http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/live/2006/10/02/marriage-help/#comment-18845 It seems to me that we fall so easily into the "blame game," rather than taking responsibility for ourselves and what we do or say. It really takes humility to stay out of it. One thing I find helpful is to remind myself: "there, but for the grace of God, go I." That reminds me of all the hurtful things people have done to one another, and that I am certainly capable of the same! That keeps me on my toes... Steve It seems to me that we fall so easily into the “blame game,” rather than taking responsibility for ourselves and what we do or say. It really takes humility to stay out of it. One thing I find helpful is to remind myself: “there, but for the grace of God, go I.”

That reminds me of all the hurtful things people have done to one another, and that I am certainly capable of the same!

That keeps me on my toes…

Steve

]]> By: Chan http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/live/2006/10/02/save-marriage-insults/comment-page-1/#comment-65 Chan Wed, 11 Oct 2006 10:04:49 +0000 http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/live/2006/10/02/marriage-help/#comment-65 It is somewhat difficult if your husband had an affair once, and is having an affair again! There is nothing more I would like to do than hurl insults at him. It is somewhat difficult if your husband had an affair once, and is having an affair again! There is nothing more I would like to do than hurl insults at him.

]]> By: Roselyne S http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/live/2006/10/02/save-marriage-insults/comment-page-1/#comment-53 Roselyne S Tue, 03 Oct 2006 15:54:14 +0000 http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/live/2006/10/02/marriage-help/#comment-53 Our tongue is a such powerful weapon! But sometimes it is the only one...And we tend to use it without realizing the depht of the wounds it leaves behind.... It is so good to be reminded to be gentle with each other, and that it is never too late to change course Thank you for this great advise Our tongue is a such powerful weapon! But sometimes it is the only one…And we tend to use it without realizing the depht of the wounds it leaves behind…. It is so good to be reminded to be gentle with each other, and that it is never too late to change course

Thank you for this great advise

]]> By: Thomas K http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/live/2006/10/02/save-marriage-insults/comment-page-1/#comment-52 Thomas K Mon, 02 Oct 2006 20:59:50 +0000 http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/live/2006/10/02/marriage-help/#comment-52 If there is one thing I regretted after a fight it was calling my wife a fat bitch. She isn't fat, but she did battle with her weight a few years back. That comment hurt her more than I could ever know and it took a long time for her to forgive me. If I could have taken that comment back, I would have. But it taught me a lesson. I'm much more careful when I'm angry now. No insults, period. If there is one thing I regretted after a fight it was calling my wife a fat bitch. She isn’t fat, but she did battle with her weight a few years back. That comment hurt her more than I could ever know and it took a long time for her to forgive me. If I could have taken that comment back, I would have. But it taught me a lesson. I’m much more careful when I’m angry now. No insults, period.

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