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By now you realize that if you are going to restore, heal, and strengthen your marriage, you need to think frankly about the reasons your marriage isn't working for you and your partner.
We have looked at the loss of love and intimacy, affairs, poor communication, lack of commitment to your spouse, and the dangers of letting yourself grow apart.
The most successful couples are those who are able to take an objective look at their relationship, see what's wrong with it, and do something towards finding a solution to the problem or issue that is threatening the harmony of their marriage.
That's right; they aren't just stabbing in the dark, guessing what is wrong with their relationships. They aren't spending day after agonizing day fighting over seemingly insignificant incidents and actions.
Sure, there are a lot of people doing that, are doing that, and they are quite happy to spend their entire married lives lurching from crisis to crisis, but they aren't the ones that stay together for a long time. One partner or the other gets sick of the game and decides to seek something better...
But there are thousands of couples that are also able to look past their arguments and disagreements with their partners, and can identify underlying issues that really define what the problem is.
And it is solving these underlying issues that stop the fights from coming up again and again. These are the ones that are serious about making their marriage work, and they know what it takes to look past the arguments and heal the hurt that is going on underneath.
So in the heat of a fight, how do you identify the underlying issue?
It may be easier than you think. Take a step back. Take a look at the last few fights or disagreements you have had with your partner. What have they centered on? If you look back at the last six arguments you have had with your partner, what things do they all have in common?
Now put yourself in your partner's shoes. Try to understand their perspective in the arguments they have with you. What do you imagine their motivation is, and what do you imagine makes them the most upset?
Now look at your values, and those of your partner. Does anything you or your partner do threaten those values or ideals?
One of my friends, Kate, was in a similar situation to this. She and her husband Ray were always fighting over things like what restaurant to eat at, what clothes Ray wore, how much money Kate spent on her clothes, and the friends they had. They were arguing all the time and making each other miserable!
When they both took the time to sit down and look at any patterns that emerged from their arguments, Kate identified that Ray has more basic tastes than her, and had no real aspirations to better himself, or progress up the social ladder in the same way she does.
What Kate found is that in her keenness to get Ray to live the lifestyle she always wanted, she was crushing Ray's values and way of life. Ray was quite happy being an ordinary guy, wearing ordinary clothes, and having ordinary friends. Fancy clothes and fancy people intimidated him and made him feel uncomfortable.
Once they had identified the underlying issue of their differing aspirations and differing lifestyle ambitions, they were able to work within that and come to a compromise that took into account the values, ideals and ambitions of both of them.
All it took was an examination of what was important to both couples. Increased awareness of the underlying issues, and increased communication skills enabled this couple to overcome something that was potentially a hugely detrimental influence on their marital relationship. But this was only achieved by stepping away from the fight and looking at the bigger issue.
So what does this mean for you and your relationship?
Next time you have a fight with your spouse over something, consider the deeper underlying issue. Remove yourself from within the argument, as if you are a stranger looking in. Sometimes others looking in can see something that should be obvious to us.
See if you can identify a pattern or an issue that seems to surface on a regular basis. Resolving the issue,rather than the fight, may be the key to rebuilding marital harmony and breaking the cycle of negativity in your marriage.
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